Jan 31 2007

Today was the first day in a while that I didn't have to check the date as I began my post. I went out on a measure with DJ and the girls this morning - about 75 miles round trip. It can be a bit boring sometimes - but I really enjoy having time with DJ. We were listening to some uplifting talks on CD - and really feeling the spirit!

Question for today: Do you have a favorite author? Why? Who? Tell about your favorite books as a child...youth...adult.

It seems like I've answered a question similar to this already - But I'll answer anyway. I think my favorite author of fiction is Laurie King (Sherlock Holmes series) - I really enjoy her use of words and how well she can paint a word picture. That said, I enjoy many authors - that is the author I would pick, though, if she had a new book out and the other authors I like had new books out too - I would listen to her first. I am really excited about the new Harry Potter book comming out - that is going to be great!

As I child - I remember the stale smell of books - enjoying that smell as my mom would read to me. I enjoyed many authors growing up - Jean Plaidy, Victoria Holt, and Piers Anthony. There isn't much time nowadays to read - but I just started a book last night- Brother Brigham's Gold by Blaine and Brenton Yorgason. It is good so far - I'm hoping to read a little bit this afternoon.

Jan 29 2006

Today has been nice - I corrected papers at school - 5 assignments! I enjoy being able to help out. It's a way I can choose the service I give - I'm not just doing something because it's my job - like the household chores...Anyway, I find it really rewarding. Cory is so wonderful to babysit for me!

Question: What do you remember about the day you were baptized?

I just have faint impressions of my baptism day (at age 8). I remember feeling a bit scared - unsure about things but excited at the same time. I remember after my dad immersed me in the water and I came up - how sad I was that I had to be baptized again - because my foot floated up and I needed to be completely under the water. But I was immersed again - and this time it was complete! I remember feeling so happy and clean! We believe that your sins are washed away when you are baptized - What a wonderful feeling!

Make it a great day!

January 29 2007

I'm still shaking my head at my crazy little girls cutting their hair. I discovered after writing yesterday that Taylor's hair had not escaped the scizzors - although it wasn't too bad - it is comb-over able. This morning I'm psyching myself up for a trip to the store. Sigh...... It is a major outing with the girls and while they are a lot better than they used to be - I still remember the times.... I'm sure we'll have a funny story to share tomorrow.

Question for today: Do you have a favorite magazine? Describe it and the kinds of things you learn from it or enjoy about it.

I enjoy almost any magazine. Having said that - I've already read February's Ensign - I read it the day it came - cover to cover. It is wonderful and I encourage you to check it out - especially the story about the good samaritan parable. For my friends that aren't members - you can click on this link to see what I'm talking about: http://www.lds.org/gospellibrary/pdfmagazine/0,7779,592-6-1,00.html#

It's just been the last few months that I really started reading the whole Ensign. It really brings a nice spirit into my home and heart. I have figured out that I just tuck whatever magazine I want to read into a pocket in my purse and use those spare waiting minutes to read. It really helps! I also like to sneak the Readers Digest in before DJ gets to read it.

A couple of other favorites are: Real Simple which I don't normally purchase - but occassionally - other times I've read it at a restaurant on a date with DJ. I like the articles in it. I wish Scrapbook Answers was going to continue, but alas - it's not! I loved that it came with a disk of goodies! I also like Family Fun - with all the fun activities it suggests - though I don't usually make the fancy treats for the kids - too labor intensive! They have a web site that you can check out too! http://familyfun.go.com/

Have a great day! I'm going to make mine great!

Jan 28 2007

Sunday - a nice day today. We left the girls to play while I was on the phone and DJ was reading the paper. Hinks decided to cut her hair.... at first she told us Mckay did it, but then later confessed to doing it herself (with Mckay saying - I didn't do it!) What times they have!

I don't like my question today - another can of worms. I knew it was comming, though....
What were your mother's best traits? Her worst? The ones you share?

I am glad that I learned how to work from my mom. I've heard a story about an experience (it might have been a scientific experiment) - where old and young people were stranded in the water. Interestingly, the older people held out for rescue while many of the younger ones gave up and died. The point being that the older ones knew they could endure - hold on, while the younger ones hadn't been tested and didn't know how long they could last. My mom taught me I can last a lot longer than I think. That's something that I didn't realize was as big a gift as it has been. It's helped me through a lot. My mom also likes to read - and I've inherited that from her. I don't allow myself to read as much as I'd like because I can easily lose track of time and space.

My mom hasn't always been as patient as she is now. DJ and I both have noticed how our moms have "mellowed" with time. That's a good thing for them - I still am less patient than I'd like, though. I'm looking forward to mellowing with time.

I think that will do. Have a peaceful evening!

Jan 27 2007

Had a nice day - a RS women's conference. Very uplifting - but after that and a little adventure I'm wiped!

Question: Do you like rain storms? Why? Why not? Do you have memories connected with rain?

I do like rain storms. I like to watch them from inside - drinking cocoa and wrapped up in a blanket. I don't think I have any memories connected with rain - if I change my mind, I'll update this. Once we got so much rain - that the rain was up to the level of the grass in the front. It was really comming down and the gutters couldn't keep up. But, as long as we don't have a flood, I don't mind the rain.

Jan 26 2007

Such a nice bright sunshiny day! We went driving with DJ early this morning - and I was really suprised to see the smog - as we got up high enough - Because it is so nice today! The sorting of pictures continues - I haven't really done much yesterday or today, but I found this picture I wanted to share.... It's from our 24th of July Celebration last summer. It's nice to remember how hot this day was as it's so cold now!

Question for today: Describe your Sundays as a mother/father.

Now that's a question I can answer fairly easily! Usually, the girls and I sleep in a bit on Sundays - getting up about 8:30. I like to look at the newspaper - at least checking to make sure no one I know is listed in the divorce column. It's may seem silly, but I like to check. Then we eat breakfast (unless it's fast Sunday - then just those not fasting eat). After breakfast, we get into our church clothes. If we've enjoyed the morning right - we have about 1/2 hour to get the hair done and final preparations made. Then we're off to church @11 - 2. We usually get home at 2:30 - have a quick bite to eat - with the dinner later. We like to enjoy a family movie - Liken the Scriptures or something from the Church. Sometimes we play a game like Uno. We try to keep everyone awake until 6 pm - then we go to bed early. The older girls take awhile to go to sleep, but the little ones are tired. DJ and I are up for a bit - it gives us time to talk about our lessons from church, and have couple time. That's it!

Jan 24 c

OK - I could have said something at least. The aunts on my dad's side (you know who you are) are very special to me and have provided me with perspective and opportunities that I didn't have without them. The time I spent in California provided memories that I will enjoy as long as I have memories. I remember long talks with both of them. I remember shopping excursions with both of them. You have contributed to my sense of style - for the better! I continue to enjoy great frienships and look forward to time I can spend with each - even though that time is so small! Thank you both so much!

Since no other people in that category read this blog - I won't put anything about them - but I have wonderful memories of all my aunts and uncles.

Jan 25 2007

The girls are busy today – getting into all my drawers. What fun they find in the ordinary items! My cell phone was not working this week, so DJ took it in and swapped it for another one. Unfortunately, he forgot to bring it home so I get one more day without my phone ;( It’s interesting how much we rely on things like this to add structure to our days!

It's a bit of a rough day here - so we're enjoying some movies. Hope your day is great!

Question for today: Tell about school – schools attended, special teachers, friends, classes, activities, humorous situations, achievements, etc.

This is another question that might have too much personal information in it – so I’ll answer it in my word document that keeps a record of all my blogs.

I will tell one story - just for fun..... I really hated bologna and that was what my mom bought and made sandwiches with for me. I didn't want to hurt her feelings that I didn't like my lunch - so I just wouldn't eat it. I remember a dog that sat watching for our bus to drive by - I would toss him my bologna sandwiches. He loved to see our bus! I remember having to be a bit sly about it because you weren't supposed to throw things from the bus. I don't think this went on too long - I probably got hungry after a while, so I decided to volunteer to make my own sandwiches and went with peanut butter and jam. That worked really well. And Yes - I have told my mom about the sandwiches - years after the fact, but she does know.

Jan 24 2007b

I had to add just this little bit. I guess it's getting to be lunchtime and my girls were hungry - so they decided to make Kool-aid in the bathroom sink. How do they come up with these ideas? You can tell they knew they were in trouble - but were also cautiously optimistic - because how often does Mama say - hold it while I get my camera? I hollered out to Mckay asking if she was involved and she said no.....

So I started to cleanup... saying - That was a bad choice (my phrase of choice lately). Hinckley repeats - Bad choice. Then I say - Let's make it a good choice - she says OK! and smiles - Mama makes it better I say. I turn around to get a wet wipe - it's what I have on hand.....and this little apparition peeks out - scaring me good because I didn't know she was there...

I jumped but didn't yell! I didn't get upset even! I felt like I handled it well - so I had to post about it! Now I guess I better get them some lunch.

Just you wait, Melissa and Ola! You'll be telling stories like us soon enough!

Jan 24 2007

This morning has been busy already! I took a walk to a friend's house - and back home again as she wasn't home. I'm working on fixing up the jogging stroller. It has taken a beating being out in the elements. DJ has told me he'll make a place to store it - That will be nice!

I had to put on this cute picture on. DJ and Ed playing some guitar hero game. They had a great time - Ed is a real pro while it was DJ's first time playing. We don't have games like this at our house - so playing was a real treat for DJ.

Question or assignment for today: List each of your aunts and uncles and tell one thing about them.

I am going to put this in my personal record - don't want to have too much information here.

Jan 23 2007

We're thinking about Ellie and Sheila this morning - Ellie is a niece going to get her tonsils out today and Sheila is a sis-in-law who had an emergency appendectomy yesterday. We hope things get better for both of them!

A couple of questions or points to explain. Grandma, about the shopping, you probably did take me, I just have a very swiss cheese memory - and I only had my memories to go on. I wish I could remember all the things we did together - because I know there is a lot I don't remember.

A three hour visiting teaching marathon is when you spend over an hour at each of two sister's homes then the rest of the time talking to your companion in the car afterward. I must be a better listener than I think. It's a once a month deal - so I just go along with it - the sisters really seem to want us to stay and visit. I think every month - maybe I'll try to shorten our visits, but it never seems to happen. I'll have to work on being more assertive!

Something interesting happened this morning - We have a neighbor that I had been friendly with. She doesn't have many contacts outside her home so she really latched onto me and had been to visit several times last year (before Halloween). I had checked on her about Monthly to make sure things were going well. We last saw her at Christmas time. This morning - at 7:30 she was on my doorstep with a jar of peanut butter in her hand. She apoligized for the earliness of the hour, and asked me for five dollars. I should mention she brought the peanut butter for us.

She had never asked for money before - but she's always been a bit eccentric. I was glad DJ hadn't gone to work yet. I was so surprised, I didn't know what to say. I hardly ever have cash in my purse, so I knew I would have to scrounge to find the money. Kimball had 2 dollars and DJ had 1 in his wallet, and I raided Mckay's piggy bank for the other two. She thanked us and promised to pay us back on Thursday. The money didn't worry me - I just thought it was rather strange. We didn't ask what it was for - didn't really want to know.
She left shortly after that.

Well, as a charater in a children's TV show would say "That's something you don't see everyday!"

On to the question of the day:
Write your testimony of life....marriage....the gospel.

This life is quite the experience, but I know that it gives us opportunities to grow. I don't often recognize these opportunities until I'm through them, but on the rare occasion I see them for what they are (in the midst of trial) the perspective really helps me to endure them. Our Relief Society lesson was Tragedy or Destiny last week, and I really liked how Pres. Kimball saw trials and hardships as necessary for our growth. I want to be a better person tomorrow than I am today, so I can expect that life will provide me experiences that will allow me to choose to be better. I'm glad to have this life to enjoy!

Marriage is one of the biggest challenges and blessings I have been given. It's wonderful to have someone so loving in my life, someone to share the journey with. It's difficult to communicate with him, at times though. I am conviced that it is worthwhile, whatever the challenge to try to grow closer as a couple. I enjoyed telling the story of how we met in an earlier post. I can see the hand of the Lord guiding us to each other - and I know that the times when it's difficult I can go to God and he will bless us to turn to each other.

I truly believe that we lived with our Heavenly Father (God) before we came to this earth. The best times in my life are when I have felt his love for me. I believe that we are here for a reason - not just by chance. I know that there's a reason we love and care about each other - friends, and family - and it's because we knew each other before and we will know each other after we die. What a blessing to have people we love around us to help us through these experiences. I believe that Jesus Christ died for our sins - enabling us to return to Heavenly Father if we accept him and follow his teachings. I believe that our loved ones that die are not lost, that they wait for us and that we will be with them again after this life. I am grateful for my membership in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. I'm so glad that we have a prophet - President Hinckley - who continues to guide us. Last night we had a Family Home Evening Lesson on Joseph Smith - and I enjoyed sharing my testimony of his life and mission with my children. We read the Book of Mormon (almost) every night! I am so glad that my girls enjoy going to church and learning these truths that I've learned (and continue to learn). The gospel truly is the good news! Thanks for letting me share these things with you!

Jan 22 2007

I think I have a bit of a cold this morning - all stuffy! I'm just going to get right to the question:

Describe a trip downtown as a youngster.

Growing up where I did, the nearest town was so small - it didn't really have a downtown. When we'd visit Grandma and Grandpa - we were more likely to have a trip downtown. I remember driving around town - not really doing much walking or anything. I think that's why I enjoy window-shopping and walking around downtown so much now. I remember paying attention to street names and enjoying my growing knowledge of the area. Kimball enjoys telling us what streets we drive on as we go to church. I just remembered - going through an underpass on the way to the Grandparents - there was a train crossing overhead - and listening for the honk that Dad would always do as we went through. He would tell us to listen for the train - and then honk (providing the train sound I guess). That was so fun!

Jan 21 2007

I have to get this done tonight! It's been a nice long day at church with a 3 hr visiting teaching marathon. I'm ready for bed!

Question: What personality traits do you admire most and why?

I wish I had longer to think about this - but I've always been one who liked to hurry through a test as fast as I could - thinking my first instinct was right.
I like friendly people - those who seem to make friends effortlessly. DJ can start up a conversation with just about anybody. I am OK at this - but it doesn't come natural - I push myself. I also admire those who are able to keep things to themselves. I worry that as I get older, I just get to be more of a gossip - so this is something I'm always trying to watch. Sometimes I succeed! I don't think I'm guilty of breaking any confidences - I can keep a secret. It seems like I'm more likely to be too talkative when I'm focused on myself. If I make the effort to just focus on someone else, ask them questions, etc - I talk a lot less. I had a cold several weeks ago that really helped me to be a better listener. I guess that's what I'm really trying to say - someone who listens more than they talk. Maybe along with this - I admire those with tact. Someone who can say something that could be taken badly - but they say it so well that it is well recieved. These are all associated with communication skills - so maybe that would be the overarching personality trait I admire.

Jan 20 2007

This morning has been busy - dry pack canning! Notice Taylor warming her biscuts by the fire....DJ says to say - And the rest of the day was spent cleaning up. Just tying up some loose ends - not too big a production.

A short entry today - my posts have been on the long side this week. I think I have the movie link fixed - not sure, though. Give it a try....

Question: Did you go to college or take any vocational training? What and where?

I went to Ricks college for my first 2 years. I don't remember what my original major was - Microbiology or Genetics, then I switched to Biology Education. That's what I graduated with. I took a year off while DJ finished and worked at the local Jr. High as a school companion. Then I transfered to BSU and continued my schooling to get a teaching certificate. Finally I came to a pivotal place- I could take Organic Chemistry over (worked really hard for the D I got in that class - an A in the Lab, though), or change majors. I looked through the catalog to see what I could do and still graduate on time. I was really tired of biology classes too! I decided on Psychology and had such a great time taking mostly Psychology classes my last year and a half (plus the freshman speech class my last semester - while I was serving in the ward as Primary President - speeches in that class were no big deal!) . I was on the deans list every semester after I changed majors. I don't plan on going into counseling - I've discovered that I internalize other's problems too much for my own peace of mind. I do hope to study organizational psychology someday.

Currently I'm being educated in the art of motherhood - I've studied for almost 10 years now and know no more than when I started! I hope to reach a post-graduate level in about 16 years (when biscut is 18). It's slow going - but I'm learning more than ever before.

It's been a bit of a rough morning for DJ - he's been the "big daddy" and I've had a lovely break not being in charge. I better sign off so I can help cheer him up a little! Put some cheer of your own in your world!

Recital

Jan 19 2007

Friday. I've been working on getting my pictures organized. I came across a pile of DJ's - so now I get to do those as well. I took out the High School name for privacy reasons... Here's a fun one of him back in his High School Running Days. It's fun to see how young he looks! It doesn't seem like he's gotten any older - but he doesn't look like this kid anymore. He's just a few years away from his 20th class reunion! How the time flies....

Question for the day: How did you like being the oldest, youngest, or middle child? Did it have any particular advantages or disadvantages?

I used to feel a bit cheated being the oldest - like I had to grow up too quickly. Watching Kimball though, I'm starting to think that it's a personality thing. Much as I want her to enjoy her time (and she does) she still is overly concerned about those around her - How are you doing? etc. I think it's good to be aware of others and their feelings but she can't make everything OK and she shouldn't feel like it's her responsibility to.

Growing up as I did with my siblings so close in age - it was nice to have plenty of space to get away from one another. I did feel close to them, though. I can't even imagine having an older sibling. I was the one who got to babysit the others. I was the one who got to go to the dances first, who got to drive first. I think that's just the way it was - there weren't any alternatives so we all accepted the order of things. It's been interesting to hear DJ's sisters talk about their perceptions of the disparity in expectations and treatment of boys vs girls in their family. I remember feeling just a bit of that. From the perspective I have now, I realize it's all in how you look at it. I guess that's one of the secrets of life - looking at it from a perspective that encourages peace and satisfaction.

Try looking at something in a new light today - make yourself happy!

Jan 18 2007

It's been a real nice morning so far. A friend in the ward dropped off some clothes that her daughter had outgrown. Taylor claimed these pants although they are too big for even Mckay! She is excited to see her picture on the computer - saying Me! Me! What a sweetie!

The girls are coloring and having a great time today. My goal is to talk them into a nap. When Taylor got up this morning - she just wanted me to snuggle her - and get rather upset when I had to set her down to use the restroom! She cried for me through the door. Nothing like that to feel loved!

If you're remembering stories of your own as you read mine, why not write them down? Trust me, you'll forget far too much if you wait until later to do it!

Question for today: Tell about a fishing or hunting experience.

I don't recall ever going hunting. When DJ and I went to visit Bobbie a few years back, we were extended the invitation to go hunting. I regret that DJ didn't go - I would have like to have known Bobbie better. I am glad for the time we spent with Bobbie at the end.

I went fishing a few times when I was younger - didn't really like handling the worms or the fish. I did like holding the pole and reeling it in! DJ has plans to take the girls fishing more - starting this year. I am happy to sit on the bank and watch and photograph the whole deal! I'm lucky to have DJ to take care of the fishes. I think if I had to, I could probably do it myself. But I'm glad I haven't had to. I did take all those biology classes and dissected many things. I'm glad I don't have to do that anymore, either.

Jan 17 2007

What to write???? Yesterday Kimball had her piano lesson - she's doing so great! The rest of the kids had a great time sitting in the burbie - or bus as I'm starting to call it, listening to primary children's songbook. They even had me stay in the car for a couple of extra songs once we got home!

Question for day: Tell a courtship story about your parents, how they met, etc. Then tell the same about you.

I didn't plan this question for today - -but I am surprised how it tailors so well into yesterday's blog. I know my parents were in a FHE group and my mom was trying to set my dad up with someone else. He was interested in her, though. I also know that their engagement was on again, off again. That's about all I really know.

DJ and I met a few times through my roomates - he was involved in music at Ricks and so were my roomates, so they knew him and were friends with him and his roomate. I had one roomate who was interested in DJ - and that was a bit difficult. I found out that she was interested after our first date. DJ was also in horticulture (plant) classes and sold plants at the weekly plant sale at the MC. I found out about this after I had bought someone else's plant and felt bad that I hadn't bought his - so I named my plant DJ - and then it proceeded to die - It was a "china doll" and invariably difficult to keep alive. The funny part was I had to carry my plant to work after I bought it, and then home. DJ saw me walking home (didn't really know who I was - just a girl with a helpless plant) and pulled over to offer me a ride home - right in front of the house next door to mine :) I thanked him but assured him I would make it home - next door- OK on my own.

DJ came to Jaussi House (where I lived) sometime before we began dating. I came home in the middle of his visit - and barely even looked at him - I was tired and hungry - preoccupied. He told me later that he thought I was a "rich girl" because the TV, VCR and computer were all mine - my roomates had informed him. This was back in the day before these things were as common in college apartments - they weren't supplied with the apartment. We were grateful to have them - a small TV, an old VCR that broke (I had the electrical tech dept fix it for me, and I purchased my computer with grant money for school). I just was thinking - we had a sort-of internet at work - Ricks College Construction Management Dept. - but it wasn't anything like we have today, and I had no internet in the apartment!

Things finally came together for DJ and I - as he expressed to one of my roomates that he wanted to learn how to country dance (aparently he was interested in someone who went country dancing). I had a roomate Amy who was a dance major that was going to go with DJ to teach him how to dance, I planned to go as well - I figured I could get a dance or two in also. Amy ended up getting a migrane and couldn't go so DJ and I went. I remember we had to pick up his roomate, Sherwin and I was impressed that they didn't make me climb in the back seat of the car (so Sherwin could ride in the front - it was a 2 door Toyota Celica). DJ being the gentleman he is, didn't mention that he wanted to dance with anyone else. We had a great time and danced together all night. After I got home, I stayed up until 2 AM talking with my roomate who was interested in him about things. She was really practical and said she thought it would go one of two ways - either nothing would come of the date, or we might date a bit and then it would be over. She was willing to let it go and see what would happen. Thank You Laura!

Well, that's how we met - the whole story. I guess I need to get the story on my parents!

Jan 16 2007

We had a nice day yesterday - the girls helped out lots. We made rolls and cookies. They even had a sunflower stalk fight in the backyard. I got most of the jars put up where I want them. I have 2 quart jars on top of my cabinets with a varitety of things in them - dried fruit, various baking mixes, snacks, parmesan cheese, nuts, etc. When I'm all done - I'll have some with trail mixes in the remaining space. It really is a lot of fun finishing things up. DJ's talking about getting the Tile backsplash finished. I don't know what I'll do with everything done! I guess I'll take a picture.

Cory and the kids are comming over today. I needed a babysitter so I can go to the school for a little bit and she needs to burn some family movies. Like Kimball likes to say - A win-win! It is nice having them so close - not that we see each other all the time - but as frequently as we both like!

Question today: Tell the words of a song from your childhood. What memories does it bring?

I can think of a couple songs - Primary songs invariably because primary was a big part of my childhood. Popcorn Popping on the Apricot tree is a great one - but I don't associate it with many memories because It's such a part of my life now - Taylor loves that song and is always one step ahead on the actions - that girl knows what's comming!

I remember my mom having the radio on occasionally during the day and those great 70's songs. I learned to love Billy Joel - and he's still my favorite. I think the first song of his that I had memorized was "The Longest Time"
Oh, oh, oh, oh, For the longest time.
Oh, oh, oh, For the longest....
If you said goodbye to me tonight
there would still be music left to write.
What else could I do?
I'm so inspired by you.
That hasn't happened for the longest time.

Once I thought my innocence was gone.
Now I know that happiness goes on.
That's where you found me
when you put your arms around me.
I haven't been there for the longest time.

Oh, oh, oh, oh. For the longest time.
Oh, oh, oh. For the longest...
I'm that voice you're hearing in the hall.
And the greatest miracle of all
is how I need you
and how you needed me, too.
That hasn't happened for the longest time.
Maybe this won't last very long
but you feel so right and I could be wrong.
Maybe I've been hoping too hard but
I've gone this far and it's more than I hoped for.

Who knows how much further we'll go on.
Maybe I'll be sorry when you're gone.
I'll take my chances; I forgot how nice romance is
I haven't been there for the longest time.
I had second thoughts at the start.
I said to myself, "Hold onto your heart."
Now I know the woman that you are.
You're wonderful so far and it's more than I hoped for.

I don't care what consequence it brings.
I have been a fool for lesser things.
I want you so bad, I think you ought to know that
I intend to hold you for the longest time.

Oh, oh, oh, oh. For the longest time.
Oh, oh, oh. For the longest....

OK - just so you know, I didn't write it from memory, I have the sheet music. I don't know what memories it brings - I enjoyed singing along I remember. I think I dreamed of the love I would find someday and hoped to find someone who would sing me sappy songs like this (I also bought a guitar back in 2001 hoping he'd learn to play sappy songs for me- that didn't work either). With the perspective I have now, it seems that love is a daily decision - will I act with love towards those around me, rather than the sentiments expressed in this song. That doesn't mean I don't like to feel romanced - it's part of those thrilling bursts of speed expressed in this quote I love:

“Anyone who imagines that bliss [in marriage] is normal is going to waste a lot of time running around shouting that he has been robbed.
“[The fact is] most putts don’t drop. Most beef is tough. Most children grow up to be just people. Most successful marriages require a high degree of mutual toleration. Most jobs are more often dull than otherwise. …
“Life is like an old-time rail journey—delays, sidetracks, smoke, dust, cinders and jolts, interspersed only occasionally by beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of speed.
“The trick is to thank the Lord for letting you have the ride” (“Big Rock Candy Mountains,” Deseret News, 12 June 1973, A4).

Ah, for the dreams of youth! Anyway, I heard something somewhere that really touched me. It was that the most important love story for our children is our love story. It's what happens after the "and they lived happily ever after" - how and what keeps the love alive. We show our children how to be happy and why it's worthwhile. In the world of love shown in it's various forms on TV - we should be the REAL example our children look to.

Make some love in your world today!

Jan 15 2007

I almost put 2006! I just want to go on record here - I only started doing the questions each day to get rid of the journal jar! When my VTers were here -they both said they had journal jars sitting around. I think I've had it since 1999! Anyway, Onward and upward! Also - since about day 3 I make myself answer the question I draw out - even if I don't know what to say, or don't want to answer it. My picture I think goes along with the question for today. It says - On this site in 1897 nothing happened.

Yesterday was pretty good - other than Taylor wasn't feeling 100% - after some raisins and a nap, she was a lot better (read between the lines here). A girl has to have some privacy! Kimball is home today and life is going pretty smooth. We're planning a cookie factory for later. DJ's cookie jar is out of cookies! Did I mention that his goal for the year was to have cookies every day? Interesting goal.....

My question for today: What would you like to be remembered for?

That's a tough question. If I wasn't making myself answer it, I would pick another question for today.

I want my girls to remember me as a loving, caring mother who they really felt close to and could confide in. I want DJ to remember me for... - but I plan on out-living him ( see my plan below) wanting the best for him - wanting to be the best for him. I want my extended family to remember me for the eccentric person I am - but also for the realistic person I am becomming (not pushing myself or others beyond reasonable limits). I want my friends (family separated by birth) to remember me as a true friend - who was caring and generous with my time. I want my aquaintances - ward, or otherwise to remember me as someone who really listened when they talked, who had a smile to cheer their day. And the people who don't know me won't remember me at all!

OK - so I tried to add a bit of humor - that's just such serious stuff! DJ's grandpa's both died at 70 - so his clock is ticking (at 35). We have a good amount of life insurance on him because with my family history (long lived grandmothers) I will probably be around long after him. It can be a bit depressing to think of this so we joke about it. I plan on buying a big house with several of my friends who are in the same situation - husbands dead but life insurance to live on. We'll hire a young male nurse to take care of use in our old age. That's the plan anyway. I talked to a great old gal down the road who lives independantly at 92 - and told her of this plan. She said that her and her friends had thought about living together but were too independant for it! She did get a kick out of the male nurse, though.

Make it a memorable day!

Jan 14 2007

What a fun evening last night! Taking the little ones on a date sounded a lot less fun than it ended up. Kimball went skiing with the school - night skiing - 1st lesson. DJ and I were both thinking about her and needed a distraction. Neither of us has been skiing before. So - we took the rest of the girls to the dollar theater and saw the movie Flushed Away after a quick picnic in the burbie by the lake. One has to eat..... Everyone enjoyed the movie and afterward we had a bit of time before we had to pick up Kimball so we went on a drive south of town - looking for the river. We traveled several roads we had driven before and one we hadn't (but hope to finish in daylight sometime). We ended up getting back to the school just before the bus pulled in with the kids. Kimball had a great time and the others were all asleep!

Little update - I only rode the bike twice last week, but it was twice more than the previous week. All in all - the resolutions are going well!

My question for today: What are your favorites: colors, flower, foods, activites, hobbies?

That is tough for me because I haven't taken time to have a favorite for most of these things for several years. Life happens and you forget what you liked, who you were - you know? I hope you don't know, but I do. We'll see if I can come up with some answers - My favorite color is probably blue - I know it used to be and I do tend to like blue things. There are so many colors to like, though.....Flower would be Lilies but any flowers in my house are welcome to brighten my day. Food - I like lightly buttered popcorn with my special chicken seasoning on it - I am willing to share the recipie if you like :). Sounds strange, but that's what I like. Activities - date night has to be up there, along with cleaning the house (not that I like to do it - but it feels good when it's done), and watching movies. Hobbies - Scrapbooking - digital of course. I actually started some "paper' pages - don't know when those will get done - just had things I could put on them. I also like to read but enjoy it so much I forget to do those things I need to do and forget to be an attentive mom - so I do that only when I really have time (and it's a short book) - I like to keep a book in the bathroom for when I'm soaking in the tub.

Well, that wasn't too painful - It's just my answers for now - liable to change in time. Have a great day all!

Jan 13 2007

Update on Hinks - The wound kept bleeding - even through 2 bandaids - so I took her in about 5:30. You get through quick care a lot quicker with bleeding, I found. Anyway, they cleaned up the wound a bit and bandaged it tight. I was experiencing a bit of shock symptoms at this point but held it together until we got DJ with us and back in the car - then I had a bit of a cry to release some stress. That helped but I had a good headache the rest of the night. Oh well.

Thanks for the great - Mother of the Year stories everyone! It helped my day!

My question today: What do you feel has been the most significant world event that has taken place during your lifetime and why?

My first thought is - Fall of the Berlin Wall. I know that would be DJ's answer - he is just old enough to have realized the change and potential that this showed. For me, I remember that event but more memorable is the Challenger Explosion. Maybe I was just at an impressionable age. It seemed to me that life was a bit riskier after seeing that happen - not really scared, probably just more realistic at an earlier age - there isn't always a happy ending. Recently, the Tsunami was a major event for me because it seemed to be a direct sign of the times - the water heaving itself beyond it's bounds. In this age of communicatons and news and internet, there seem to be many more "major" world stories than ever before. Maybe that's a significant event in and of itself.

Jan 12 2007

Thanks Becky for reminding me about the flashing red - I had forgotten that story! It was my first and only ticket that I've gotten driving - for running a flashing red (I thought it just meant caution). Such a traumatic time! I think all the kids were crying (Bryan, Jeff, Tim, Traci, and Lori). I was almost crying too! The best part was when they asked for registration - and I opened the glove box to get it out and was pulling things out to find it - including a fire extinguisher that had a gun-like handle on it. The officer's hand went for his gun. It was a tense moment but passed quickly when he saw what I had. Memories.....

I have to write about the Costco trip! Kimball went with me because we needed to purchase some special "mature undergarments" as she hinted to her friend at school. That was an experience in and of itself - just made me feel old! We had fun stocking up on the dino-buddies that Costco has an unlimited $3.00 off coupon this month. That was good! Between those and milk I think we only filled up a quarter of the back space in the burbie. It was a surprise to discover that DJ had bought oil and a tow strap and stowed them in the back already! For those who like A Series of Unfortuate Events books - we have a lamp in our room that looks like a medusoid mycellium (or what we imagine it looks like) - so when we found Wasabi nuts at Target - we had to get a jar. You never know when you might need some Wasabi! For those who don't get this - it's OK - it just means we're a little bit nuts here!

Today has been crazy! I was resting (sleeping) in my chair in the living room and the girls were playing until Hinckley pulled the exercise bike over on top of her. I was frustrated that she had done that and not too concerned about her being hurt (natural consequences you know...) and just sat her on the couch. I glanced back at her a minute later and saw blood running down her face! EEEEKKK! She had cut her forhead. Poor girl! So I took a picture and emailed DJ and then my mom called so I emailed her too. Amazingly the bleeding stopped - those head wounds can take forever to get stopped. So we laid her down and got her bandaged up. It's not too wide - so I decided not to worry about getting it stitched or anything. Just really makes you feel like a good mom - so attentive to my kids needs! Oh! I almost forgot - in the midst of everything - Taylor found a spicy Shezwan chicken seasoning pack and bit into it! She was crying too - so I rinsed her mouth out and she quickly recovered.

Can I handle a question today? I think so - here it is: Describe getting a Chrstimas tree with your family as a child...how did you decorate it...when did you put it up...etc?

I only remember one live tree growing up and I don't know when or where we got it. Mostly we had artificial (plastic kind) trees that Mom got out and we decorated. My memories of this aren't really clear. I remember we would put the same ornaments on year after year - adding to them the exchange ornaments that the cousins had sent us. I still have those ornaments of mine - and what fun it is to see them and feel those special feelings of memory as you handle them. We also put the lights on and I think we used to do tinsel too!

I don't think I"ll be able to nap any more today. That's probably a good thing.

Jan 11 2007

Does cocoa make you sleepy? If so I may have overdosed on cocoa. I've been so tired this morning - just can't seem to get going! I'll have to cut back on the cocoa ;) The girls have had a great time getting out all possible toys while I was napping. We get to clean it all up then go to the store. It will be the first trip to Costco with the suburban! It's pretty exciting to have a place to put the groceries - and not just around the kids feet either. There's a bit of snow that is on the ground today - fell starting last night and we'll probably get some more. It's got me thinking about driving in the snow - so the question today really fits.

Question for today: Tell about how, when and where you learned to drive....any memorable experiences?

I took drivers ed through the high school. It was a pretty non-eventful experience except for the time we had a cute boy drive in our group (he had swapped turns with one of our 'team'). I had worn some tight pants that ended up with a seam ripped out in the backside. I was really skinny in those days so you know they had to be tight. I was able to extricate myself without exposure and I don't think he knew what had happened - so it all ended well. Moral of the story - don't wear tight pants! There's a limit to what thread can do!

I did have an early driving story that was interesting. After I got my licence some friends and I were going out and I drove one group. After dropping off the first friend at her house, I proceeded to back out of her driveway - thinking the mailbox was on the same side of the road as her house - it was not and I ended up backing into a field (over a big sprinkler pipe). She got her uncle to pull me out with his truck (this was in the country) and I didn't damage either the vehicle or the pipe. I was driving Bruce & Sharon's old Pontiac Lemans. I loved driving that car. Many happy memories - even driving in snow was fun in that car! My last memory of the Lemans was having it at college - parked in back of the house I lived in and hearing someone's horn honking. That horn was so annoying - I couldn't imagine who was doing that. It honked for 1/2 hr before I figured out it was my horn and went out and pulled out a fuse to stop it. I was so embarrased!
I think I left it at Mom and Dad's after DJ and I got married - they had upcomming drivers.

Jan 10 2007

Today is a hot cocoa day. Yesterday was warm enough - the kids played outside but we're in a cooling trend now. Kimball won a hot-cocoa maker at her Orthodonitist's office so we're trying it out today. It is so nice - it has a spinner that mixes up the chocolate powder (or syrup) and the water (or milk) and makes it really smooth and frothy. Also warms it. Some might say it's too hot - I think it's just right for me ( I put in a ice cube for each of the girls cups. I hadn't even heard of these before.

It's Made by Mr Coffee and called a cocomotion. Very cute - and what a deal - to win!

I had a nice nap yesterday - thanks to the girls taking their nap.

My question for today is: What is a favorite family place to go with your husband/wife and kids?

I guess I'm thinking cocoaish. We have a restaurant we really like to go to ' Little Kitchen' where they serve bottomless hot cocoa. It's really a fun place. We decided we haven't had enough fun last year - so this year we're going to go more places - I hope to have a big list in a few months.

Have a great one!

Jan 9 2007

Short post today. I've got to get a nap! I enjoyed reading the newspaper this morning and the girls got to see a couple of cartoons. Kimball got off to school well. Every morning she pauses at the curb, turns and we (Mckay, Hinckley, Taylor and I) wave at her. She then turns back around, crosses the street and again turns back to wave and blow kisses (which we return in kind). After the bus picks her up, it turns in front of our house and we do one final wave, kiss, hug exchange. Every morning! I hope this helps Kimball know how much we love her - and want her to have a good day. Most days I pick her up from school - I really like to be there when she first gets out and has so much to share with us. It's a short ride home, but packed full of details that we wouldn't otherwise hear.

My question today is: What is the most trying experience that ever happened to you?

In short, the pregnancy and birth of my last child. It's such a personal experience that I won't go into details further than that. Some experiences in life change you. This was one such experience.

Make it the best day possible - and take a nap if you can too!

Jan 8 2006

I decided to write early today - it's been a rough day already. Do you have days where you take care of one thing, only to turn around and find 2 things that need your attention. You are fixing those when the phone rings, then someone's at the door, etc. all day long? We started the morning this way - I hope that it can ease up some.

My question for today is: What was a favorite place to go with your family when you were young?

The most memorable place that we went was to Grandma and Granpa's house. We were close to one set of grandparents so I use these words to refer to them as they were the only grandparents we interacted with. When I was young, they lived in about a half-hour away from us so we saw them often. I remember the old house on Rosewood. Then came the years working on the house on Canyon. I got to help in small ways with this project and many weekends would find us there. I remember sleepovers with Mimi at both homes. It was a fun place full of interesting items to explore.


Well, that's enough for now. Have a great day!

Jan 7 2007

Yesterday I spent the majority of the day in bed - comming down with a good cold, stomach bug, and general aches. So.....I didn't write. Sorry! Today I will do 2 questions! I'm glad that these questions can be such a springboard for anyone! I've enjoyed reading Becky's answers to many of the questions - it's reminded me of things I wanted to say in my answer!

Funny thing about today - I was waffling about going to church. My stomach had calmed down, but my cold is still strong and I always have little aches. I talked myself into going - and it's a good thing because the Ward Chorister didn't show and I got asked to lead the music in Sacrament meeting. I was really glad I went the extra mile and washed my slightly greasy hair - even if it did take (what seemed like) forever to dry and style. It just isn't much fun looking bad in front of the whole congregation. I was a little weak from yesterday and didn't really get nervous until I got up on the little "step" they have for the chorister - then the panic hit me. I just smiled and led with one hand while holding onto the music stand with the other. The low point for me was when I realized the stand was shaking. I asked DJ later if he could tell I was nervous and he said no - so I was glad. I'm so grateful for the conducting class that Lorraine Wray held at her home when I was a teenager. Because of her, I can look at a hymn and know how to lead it. That's all the prep time I had today - a glance!

Anyway, on to the questions: Describe a "sound from your childhood. What was it? When did you hear it? What does it bring to mind?

The first sound that comes to mind is the sound of the country in the evening. The crickets chirping, the rustle of the grass, the slight breeze, and the cool feel it brought. Usually I heard this sound as I got ready to go to sleep each night. It was louder in the summer as the window was open. Just a soothing evening symphony. The other sound I think of is the dishwasher. I remember my mom reading stories to us - the smell of the Mrs. Piggle Wiggle books and the sound of the dishwasher running, lulling me to sleep. I think she read after breakfast or it might have been lunch - my tummy was full at any rate. What a wonderful sound - the dishwasher. It still makes me sleepy - and even though my dishwasher is really quiet, if the kids are asleep I can still hear it run - and put me to sleep.

The second question for today: What are your father's best traits? His worst? The traits you share?

Ohhhhhh....I think I'm opening up a can of worms with this question. I'll try to make it gummy worms. My dad has always had ideas, dreams, and many plans for the future. At any point in time you can ask him what he's thinking about and it's bound to be something rather unusual. I think this is a good thing - and up until he finished school about a month ago I might have said it was his worst. Before that - all his ideas were just in his mind, he never followed through with them - out of practicallity, or whatever. I know it was a difficult thing to finish his degree, but it was something he had always dreamed of doing - and just for actually doing it I think it's been one of the greatest personal accomplisments of his life. I imagine that he will see many possibilities as much more attainable now.

One of the things that has been difficult for many of us who spent time with Dad the last few years is how he has lived "in his own world" in that he has been pre-occupied with many things: his calling, his schooling, his job. He hasn't had much time to turn that off and be with us - having fun. I know many are hoping that he will now have time to have fun, play games, go vacationing, and be a grandpa.

Traits we share: I like to think that I have similar powers of observation. That I can look at what's going on and understand undercurrents. Dad is really good at this - he also is very polite. He always knows how to react, or respond to someone new. I want to be like this - he's really good at making people feel comfortable. I'm very glad that he's my dad, and I know he loves me too! (like the song says) The trick with parents is establishing new patterns of relating, based on the old patterns, that support each other as our roles change.

Hope it was a good Sabbath!

Jan 5 2005

Today has been really nice - I spent several hours at a friends' house - chatting and just enjoying her company! The kids played well together and it was good for everyone to be out of the house. I'm looking forward to this evening - Mom's night out! DJ is watching our girls and the girl cousins while me and my sis-in-laws go out for dinner and a movie. It's always a treat to have some girl time!

My question today is: How do you feel about school?

Right now I'm glad I'm not in school - that's my first reaction. I was very tired of school when I finally graduated with a bachelor's degree in Psychology back in '98. Intellectually and practically, I think school is very important though and you should get as much schooling as possible. I'm considering going back to school - someday! I think a public education is espeically helpful in teaching one how to interact with the variety of people you're likely to meet in the "real world" (whatever that is). My children will attend (and Kimball currently attends) public school. I'm curious to see how my feelings about public school change as she gets into the higher grades. She sure has enjoyed her teachers and classes so far. I attended and graduated from public school. I'm grateful for all the options we have in schools, teachers, eduction in general!

My favorite teacher growing up was Mrs. Yamada - I don't remember what years I had her for a teacher (sometime between 1st and 3rd grade). She was always positive and encouraging - just as an elementary teacher should be! I remember thinking that we did some real fun projects in her class and she would tease us with the idea that we could fit in her suitcase for her upcomming trip to Hawaii (at Christmas). It was from her that I learned the Melikaliki maka song (I have no clue how it's supposed to be spelled - I didn't learn that!).

I was a biology major for most of my college time, but after discovering that I would have to retake Organic Chemistry, I decided to rethink my options and switched to Psychology - earning grades that landed me on the dean's list for the last 3 semesters! I'm not sure what I would take if/when I go back - maybe some organizational psychology. I've even considered getting my teaching endorsement. Right now I enjoy just being a book-smart mom! I hope that motherhood has taught me some practical knowledge as well.

Jan 4 2005

Someday I'll have something other than the date for a heading....It's really been one of those days! Thank goodness for our "perspective" on life and frustrations - that they are tools to grow with. Still, it can be difficult! I'm imagining myself on a desert (make that deserted) island - already I feel a bit calmer! Everything was resolved - what more can I ask?

The girls have enjoyed the new rig! I'm still getting accustomed to it. I'm curious to see what gas-mileage we will get. The tank is definately bigger - I'm not sure how many gallons - I think it's 40? If not - it's close. This is our thinking on it - First, we like to be able to adventure as a family - and needed something big enough for us all to enjoy it. Even a jeep cherokee doesn't have enough seats. The van didn't get fabulous gas mileage as it was either. If the mileage turns out to be really crazy - I probably will be conservative and cut down on my driving (like I get out a lot anyway). Looking at vehicles to fit 4 or more kids - you are not looking at something that is going to get incredible mileage (anything above 30 I'd say). I'll keep you posted on the numbers.

What do you think of my "glamor shot" to the right? I wanted a picture that didn't really look like me - did I succeed? Below that is the comic that inspired this blog title. I'll probably change these features from time to time - how fun is it that you can do that?

My question today: What is your favorite book? What do books mean to you?

Let me go check my bookshelf.....I am stumped! I don't really have a favorite book. In fact, I usually have a hard time reading a book more than once - but now that my memory is impaired, I can read/watch things seveal times and still be surprised at the ending! I have authors I like to read - Laurie King (the Holmes series- not the Martenelli), the Lemony Snicket books, the Harry Potter series, and authors I remember reading years ago - Victoria Holt (The Pride of the Peacock) aka Phillipa Carr and Jean Plaidy. I just finished Northanger Abbey (sp?) by Jane Austen. These are entertainment books. Of course I like to read my scriptures! We all enjoy 'look books' that are mostly full of pictures and fun things to see. Then there are reference books that I enjoy.

Referrence books to me represent the real power of books - knowledge. I have a great book that tells me how to can anything - even how to make cheese. I don't refer to it often, but it is a comfort knowing that it's there if I need it. I have many other books in this category - craft books, recipe books, even old school books. I feel that if I have a book on something I don't really need to keep the information in my head - because it's in the book. I can't imagine a world without the written word, or without my knowing how to read.

Oh! I forgot to mention yesterday that I've been doing great with the snuggles - and the girls have really enjoyed me being more available for them. Must have been some inspiration!

Jan 3 2007

I'm driving a big rig! It reminds me of the times I drove Aunt Becky's 15 passenger Van (at least I think that's what it was). It was big. The best part was thinking of how relatively cheaply we got it - New it went for $41,000! - it's a 99. The window sticker was in with the owners manual! It's going to take some getting used to but already I'm imagining great adventures for our family!

The sleeping thing has been going well - I've napped every day since my resolution! Also - I've been getting to bed earlier and when I take my Tylenol PM - going to sleep earlier too! I also got on the exercise bike and rode for about 1 minute today - I felt really good about that! I need to get a new seat so it's more comfortable to spend quality time on the bike.

My question for today is (and I've put it back in the jar every day since I started this because I didn't want to do it but have now decided it is inevitable and I must do it): Describe your first "crush". What was he like?

My first crush was in grade school - and lasted for seveal years. He was blond, smiley and so cute! As time went on and I realized that my affections wouldn't be returned, I eagerly awaited the day I could turn him down for a date. Unfortunatly, he moved away before we were old enough to date. I ran into him several years back - at church and he was still single - but I was married with 1 child. Time had really helped him to grow up. I saw him again just recently and he is now married with two children. I think it's important to have closure on things like this - to realize how much you have grown and changed instead of just holding on to emotionally laden memories. Thats my take on it.

Jan 2 2007

We should be finishing up the details on the purchase of a Suburban tomorrow afternoon! It's a relief to be able to have another vehicle - and DJ's consession is that I will be driving the newer vehicle (the burbie). If my camera wasn't uploading pictures to my hard drive I'd take a picture of the new rig. There's always tomorrow!

My question for today is: Describe your first paying job. What was your salary? Your duties? What was your boss like?

Aside from babysitting jobs - and one harvest (potato harvest) spent picking rocks out of a field, My first job was at a coffee shop called the Donut Hole. My boss was named Barb - and she was a tough cookie. I don't remember offhand how old I was - old enough I guess. I made minimum wage plus tips - it seems like it was somewhere around $4.25/hr. Not sure on the number....I was a waitress who made coffee, cleaned the floor and counter/donut display, warmed and frosted the donuts, did dishes and used a cash register. I remember being left in charge (alone) during slow times. It was very different from anything I was accustomed to - but I did well - for the short time she was able to employ me. I don't think the business was very successful - it closed shortly after my employment ended.

Well - that wasn't too tough! My journal jar looks far too full - I guess I have all year to empty it :) Thanks for your encouragement! It is nice to be able to get "reaquainted" with those you don't see often.

Jan 1 2007

Quite the day - we all slept upstairs in the loft last night - had to try out the guest quarters. It was really nice - although just DJ and Kimball stayed up until midnight! Our beanbag beds are quite comfortable - we'll have the do that again - maybe next New Years Eve.

We had a family lunch at Dan and Kayes. Kaye is doing great - taking it easy and getting plenty of rest. With only a couple of weeks left to recover from the surgery before heading back to work - she's trying to get what she can done. On a side note- DJ and I snuck away to go pick up a Suburban we're thinking about buying. He's taking it to the mechanic tomorrow to make sure that it's the deal he thinks it is. Just thinking about all of us being able to adventure together and be comfortable sounds so nice to me.

So - I've thought of some resolutions - 1. I resolve to sleep more of the year away - meaning getting to bed at a more resonable time, and sleeping instead of fretting over troubles. 2. I resolve to exercise more this year - not just chasing after my kids either. Any number bigger than zero is more :) 3. I resolve to answer one of my "journal jar" questions with my blogs - unless it's too personal then I'll just answer it in a word document. 4. I resolve to love my kids more - and snuggle each of them at least once a day. 5. I resolve to make no more resolutions - this will be plenty.

My question for today is: (ok - I admit it's the third one I drew out - I just am not ready to answer the first two) What do you think about television?

I have heard lots of opinions on TV - even read a book about someone's opinion of TV. I think that it can be a valuable tool if used wisely. At times in my life, I have not been able to do very much - especially when I was expecting Taylor. I wasn't eating enough calories to mantain my weight - even with sitting in a chair the majority of the day. As I lost muscle - I relied on the TV for distraction and entertainment for my children. It was heaven-sent.

There is BYU TV and some other programming that is what I call "positive" and a lot of programming that is "neutral" and programming that is "negative". The trick is to figure out what is most uplifting and inspiring to you - and use that for that purpose. I find that media in general (print, music, TV, etc) can affect my mood more than many other things. I try to remember this when I'm feeling "low" and use it to my advantage.

At our house we currently have satellite tv with Tivo and I really enjoy it. I can watch uplifting, educational programs when it suits me. I can fast-forward commercials. And I can have an episode of Dora for the girls when they really need some distraction (just before dinner). During the day - we generally don't have the TV on - we stay busy doing other things - but every couple of weeks we'll have a special TV day where we just enjoy snugglies and shows.

That's what I think.